A few minutes later, I had a sweaty guy on top of me, breathing heavily saying how amazing it felt. That was a long way from the truth, I had kissed numerous girls, and a little more, but never had full sex. I had to forcibly pull him off her bed and walk him out the door. This article comes as the first of our new series, We Asked Guys. I love the writing and the photos.
Being a young man full of bravado I was desperate to experience sex for the first time, both out of interest and as a bragging right.
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We talked a few years ago after 22 years This clearly contradicts all the sex scenes we watch on television or in movies where it appears that everyone can climax on demand. My first time is the sort of story that mothers have nightmares about their only daughter having. It wasn't magical or the special waterfall I imagined. I think the media, especially social media, still portrays things this way. I was squeezing my eyes so tight that both of my contact lenses popped out and we had to stop! I had given guys blowjobs and been fingered and made out with people so I thought "no big deal!