We love each other deeply, best friends, etc. So why not make sure the end result is what you both want and expected? Go ahead and do it anyway. With work, kids, and the like, it can prove difficult to lay out a well-conceived, well-executed plan to get your sweetheart in the right mood and in the bedroom. If you haven't — if you're as vague in your conversations with him as you were in your letter to me — you're essentially asking your husband to guess at your undisclosed interests or kinks.
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How to Talk About Sex
Dont give up i didnt and now im reaping the benefits big time. He suffers low testosterone. Tell her you're not pressuring her, of course, but let her know these are things you would actually like to do, and the more you talk about them, the more you want to do them. We have strayed from these foods which would shut our sex glands and desires down. Say positive things to your wife and promise her that you will limit the conversation to under an hour with the option for more talks later. They want to hold hands. That if only it was that simple.